Twenty four years ago today I gave birth to my third child. My baby. My last hurrah. The icing on our family cake.
This fine young man.
My gentle hockey player. My thoughtful activist. My handsome, sweet Tim.
I’m sitting here in my living room this evening, glass of red wine in hand. I’m listening to “Pachelbel’s Canon in D.” We had that on the radio on the morning of June 11, 1992 as we drove east, toward the rising sun. Our two other children dozed in their carseats behind us. Paul and I held hands, listening.
This was my third birth. Number one was the practice child. I was terrified heading in to deliver her. Number two came with some delays and some confusion. I didn’t know that what I was feeling was labor as I went to the hospital to be “induced” with him.
But with number three, I felt as if I had finally arrived. I knew what to expect. I was ready.
And he came with no scary surprises. He came into our lives on a bright, sunny day. I looked at him and my heart melted.
Happy birthday, beautiful child. Happy birthday, beautiful young man.
Thanks for being as loving and sweet as you were when I first gathered you into my loving arms.
And thanks for being the best brother to Matt, who greeted you in the hospital 24 years ago by throwing a leggo train at your head.
I adore you both.
Thanks for being a fabulous and supportive brother to Katie, and a wonderful Uncle to our Ellie!
You made us a whole family.