I’m 62 years old. My back hurts pretty much every damn day. My neck is stiff. My knees are achy.
I have kids here in my house. Ergo: I must pretend.
Today my little Ellie asked to watch her favorite movie, “Frozen.” I agreed right away because I love the music in this movie. And I love the lesson that it teaches, too. “True love” isn’t necessarily found in the arms of the cute guy who makes you swoon.
True love is found when one truly loves.
Great theme. Great music. Great imagery in the movie.
So when Ellie asked to watch, I was happy to say, “Sure!”
After watching roughly a quarter of the movie, Ellie announced, “I’m done with the movie, Nonni. Turn it off!”
And I did.
Which meant that Ellie came running into the room with her “Elsa dress”, asking me to zip her into the dress and give her “one big braid”, just like Elsa. I did what I was told to do and before I knew it, I found myself playing the role of little sister “Anna” to Ellie’s Queen “Elsa.”
Now, given the fact that we have little Johnny in our care, as well as two small but energetic dogs, we had pretty much the main cast of the movie right in our living room.
“You’re Anna!” Ellie told me. “You need to try to follow me, but I will run away!”
Johnny was given the role of Olaf, the snowman. Lennie was the snowmonster and silly Bentley was put in the role of “Sven” the goofy reindeer.
To be clear, we didn’t actually follow the story line of the movie. But we did spend almost an entire day running up and down the hall in our house, shouting with intense emotion.
“Elsa!” I would yell, “My dear sister!! Don’t leave me!”
“Stay back!!! Stay away!!!!” Ellie yelled back over and over again, “I love you, but I will freeze your heart!”
“ahhhhhha! Mmmmmmah!” Johnny/Olaf crowed every time the two of us ran down the hall.
“Grrffffff..mmmmmmm…..?” the dogs would whine as we ran past them through the house.
This went on for hours. The entire day was taken up with Elsa, Anna, Olaf and the meaning of “true love.”
And as I sit here tonight, my back throbbing and my neck sore, I think I understand what Princess Anna meant when she talked about true love.
I think she meant the joy that an old lady could feel when asked to pretend once again. I thinks she meant the feeling that a Nonni could feel while sitting back and watching her grandchildren completely embrace the role of magical movie characters.
When I held Ellie on my knee today, watching the end of the movie, I was overwhelmed with the magic when she turned and whispered in my ear, “Look, look! That’s me making the ice castle! Look! It’s me sending you away!”
Ellie lived completely within that movie today. She WAS Elsa, the Queen who was afraid of her own emotions. And that let me live for a while as Anna, the Princess who loved and trusted her sister.
What a gift.
What an amazing and incredible gift it is to spend time in the imaginary world of the very young.